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12. Mike H - 2010-03-05 14:26:20 |
If Im correct I saw a ton of photos of a concert I was at in 1988 of Frank Zappa in Teaneck NJ I was 18 at this concert and sat near the back right I had no idea the stage was in chaos like that. Hilarious was a wonderful last Zappa concert. He died before I could go to another. I been sad every day since his death.  |
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11. StevenW - 2010-01-29 08:11:37 |
| Read your page on psychopaths and was very impressed with your "real world" description of the problem they pose for the rest of us. Your reference to the "smirk" grin tendency especially hit home. As a former law enforcement officer, I dealt with psychopaths on an almost daily basis, and I would recognize that smirk anywhere. They didn’t even have to open their mouths; it was like they were wearing a sign. As for their increasing in number, Lord help us all. They aren’t described as "interspecies predators" for nothing. |
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10. Wishtoremainanon - 2009-04-26 12:02:19 |
To the author/creator of this website, in particular the psychopathy section. Not so long ago I encountered my first sociopath. This is the first site which so accurately describes this person more than any other I have visited. The thing which still haunts me today is how great an impact emotionally and mentally this person had in my life in such a short space of time. I don’t know if anyone has ever read or has knowledge of psychopath’s whose goal is to drive someone to suicide and therefore have to accept no responsibility for their death. If so, this would interest me immensely because I am still in the learning process of what happened to me. I found that educating myself on the type of person I was dealing with was healing to my spirit and mind.
Thank you for this site. |
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9. jm - 2009-02-13 05:24:17 |
Good that you have added to the information about psycopathy.
It is increasingly clear that this is not a treatable condition. But rather a genetic variation of human; a preditor/preditor of and by the species.
There are a few sites (books) that (correctly) observe that our current civilization is based upon what psycopaths (and their friends) have done in all cultures past. And are doing now.
I do not think using the words "psychotic" and "psycho" is appropriate. In general psycopaths are not psychotic. They are not mentally ill in the same sense a schizophrenic is. Although they can be.
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8. Terrie Collins - 2009-01-18 00:18:30 |
 Reading this has been very helpful to me as I was involved with a sociopath. |
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7. Psychopath’s Wife - 2008-10-26 01:41:21 |
This site is fantastic. I left my husband in mid August this year, just 1 month shy of our first wedding anniversary. I knew him for five years as a friend. I always thought he was a little aloof. Then after dating for around 4 months he proposed. We were engaged for 5 months, then married. He was always a little moody.
Well, once I had that wedding ring on, he became a demanding, controlling and abusive man. In every way conceivable.
He punched me, that was the end for me.
We went to counselling, which was useless, he basically told the counsellor he was perfect and I was a nagging wife.
I realised something wasn’t right with him, I noticed suddenly, he was lying, about so much.
I booked him into a psychiatrist. He went, I went. I asked the psychiatrist what he thought is the problem. He told me he is like "Mugabe" a psychopath with narcissism.
He told me to leave him. Two days later I packed and left.
I am heart broken, yet relieved, I can go home after work and not get yelled at.
Walking on eggshells is not fun at all.
We are currently at court, I got a protection order as my husband would not leave me alone, calling, abusing me via emails etc
Three weeks later he got one against me, it’s completely ficticious. I couldn’t believe he would stoop so low. Yet after speaking to many people, he is just proving what he is. A psychopath!
This man has sucked the life and energy out of me, no he is taking every cent that I earn in litigation fees. I know I will win the battle of getting a protection order. The psychiatrist told me keep all evidence.
I have folders of the emails, printouts of the website he has set up in my honor with photos of myself and my seven year old daughter.
Scary thing is, my husband is only 23 years old. He is very street wise as I have learned, just not very clever.
I think he may be dyslexic too. His brother is.
His mother is just like him, she puts on the charming facade, but wow she sends me vicious letters threatening me now.
I fear meeting another man like this, I fear for my daughter meeting a man like this one day.
Thank such an informative website.
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6. - 2008-07-02 00:18:47 |
| Curious as to how a person would know who was psycho and who wasn’t...and also, myimagination ran a little wild when I read the part about psychopath could become the dominant behavior. You know more and more people are learnin about this stuff. What if, they learn this stuff, and decide their psychopathic, and like unite against all the people that are emotional wrecks? That’d be some wild shit. We’d call it the war of the brains. lol But the real wild thing is, the psychopaths would win because they don’t have anything to hold them back. after reading this site, i’m pretty sure most people are learning if they are or not. Your music is interesting, pretty cool! I am wondering how many of the traits of these you have? |
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5. --- - 2008-01-31 05:53:17 |
Thanks for writing up this website! You have a lot of knowledge on the subject. I dated a psychopath (true psychopath as Dr. Hare says; people who are born like that, because this one was from a very decent family) for 1 year and was in touch for another year. For the whole year I dated him, I used to think something was wrong with me and I need to work on myself. My self esteem had gone so low. At that time I was totally unaware of anything related to Psychopathy. I pride myself in being a natural psychologist and I think I stuck with just so that I can figure him out but that didn’t happen and I broke up as I could not tolerate his mind games anymore. But After that I was in touch over phone\email and also met him thrice over a period of 9 months. It was during this time that his guards were lower and he would confide a lot in me. Would say things that he wouldn’t say when we were dating. Those kind of things made me question a whole lot of things like lies\pretentions\his true self. When I met him for the third time after 9 motnhs of breaking up, it was this time when I saw a his true self. After I went home I was so sick, and I don’t know how out of the blue it occured to me that he is not normal, something is really wrong with the way his brain works and I wanted to know if he was a "psychopath". The word just occured to me out of the blue. I didn’t even know the definition or all the characteristics. So I started searching online and I can across one with some characteristics listed. As I was reading each point, I was having flash of episodes matching each of those chaarcteristics with him. After that I was so scared for about 2 months without any contact with him. Then after two montsh of silence, he pinged me on messenger and I talked very briefly and formally as I did not want to upset him by ignoring. After that he would contact me about twice a week and I would just talk very little. One day I thought well I never met him in person after I had "known" so I decided to meet him for dinner, still hoping maybe I am wrong. But no. I saw him showing his colors twice though very momentarily like a flash. I don’t feel like going into details right now. I actually met him once more after that, maybe because now that I know he is a psycho I get a thrill in his presence because I feel so much more superior to him now that I know I have the upper hand. He doesn’t even know that I know.I don’t hate him anymore or blame for past. He was born like that. That is not his fault. Surprisingly, he does try to be nice with people that serve his needs. He just can’t stay nice for anytime long. He is funny, now he wants to get married (I am not dating him, but "arranged" marriages are common in my culture) to me, but I won’t get into hell knowingly.
But again, I really liked your website, it is one of the best with more authentic knowledge on the subject. Most other sites mix up sociopaths with true psychopaths. This guy is a true psychopath. Sometimes it is just funny how his mind works, like a little kid. I feel the only reason his is not out killing people or more abusive because he is from a really good well knit family. I read psychopathy is hereditary. I think he got it from his grandfather. He keeps bragging about him. |
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4. Karen - 2007-05-31 10:32:29 |
| I am married to a psychopath and believe me it is hell. Although I am very frightened, I pray I can get out of this in one piece. |
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3. anonymous - 2007-05-19 19:52:30 |
whoa!
i didnt know what was wrong with me until i read this page!!! i am actually a female, and i believe i match every symptom. I’m pretty open with my problems, and i have no problem with admitting to them when i know what they are. I couldnt figure out why i am the way that i am. I dont hurt anyone though, and i have no intentions to. Actually i like helping my friends or even people i dont even know and try to make people feel better about their situations. this article has explained to me alot about why i keep having problems in my marriage or why i do everything or feel the way i do? first i thought it was my husband, and i kept telling him he needed to do this or that to make "me" happy, but then i started to think it was me? I dont know, but i took a quiz and it said i had a borderline personality disorder, so i read up on that, and then a whole bunch of other stuff that led me to this site.
i must have alot of stuff wrong with me. I fit the borderline personality, the obsessive compulsiveness disorder, antisocial, and the psychopathy traits.
though i have a concience! i have high morals, and im not just saying that. I think just hearing all of this made me a "little" better. I’ll talk with my husband, and have him read all of it. I know my limits with stress and get help when i need it. I just dont see how any of my family members or friends couldnt tell me these things about me or help me. I had to figure all of this out on my own.
I do know alot of guys that are Psychos. I always wondered why i was attracted to them (borderline pers. disorder - i have every symptom listed)
maybe now i wont completely lose my mind because i know now why i feel and act the way i do. Good thing i figured this out, im almost 21, married, and have son. I thought it was just postpartum, or because i married at a young age? but actually its something thats been developing for a really long time.
I’ve been losing my mind more and more because i couldnt figure out why i felt the way i did, and i couldnt find any answers.
but anyway, thank you for the site, and i just wanted to let you know it really helped me and my sanity
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